You Can Manifest ALL of Your Dreams in 2018!

Hey girl! As you start setting those goals and New Year’s Resolutions this month, it’s really important that you know that you CAN actually manifest any dream you have right into your life!

Whether you’re really wanting to lose weight, you want a healthy and fit body, or you’re ready to meet your soulmate, YOU can make it happen.

It really breaks down to a few simple steps, and they’re really easy to do!

The first step you can start adding to your daily routine is Visualization.

So what exactly is visualization???

Visualization is a simple technique where you simply close your eyes and envision yourself already having that dream you desire. So if you dream of having a healthy and fit body, you would close your eyes and imagine yourself already at your goal weight, and already super fit! 

They key here is to imagine not only what you’d look like, but how you FEEL! What will it feel like to be living in a healthy body? What do other people say to you about how you look? How would it feel walking into a restaurant knowing that you’ve got your food habits under control?

When you really get into the emotion and the feeling of that dream… that’s when we really benefit from these visualization techniques! It’s these emotions that we feel when envisioning ourselves already accomplishing those dreams and goals that trick our brain and our bodies into believing that we’ve already achieved it! And then subconsciously, we don’t feel like it’s an impossible or a totally out of reach goal anymore, because our brain has already made a connection to what it feels like when it’s actually achieved!

After you see your dream like it’s already happened, it’s time for the second step of manifestation: Making Room!

So this may sound a little silly at first, but you literally need to make room for your dreams to come into your life. And by that, I mean make room physically and mentally.

If you’re really wanting to attract your soul mate into your life because you’re ready to be a wife to a loving husband, then you need to live your life like he’s already on his way to you. Live like you have room for him to fit perfectly into your life.

How???

Well it’s actually pretty simple. Instead of sleeping in the middle of your bed just because you’re single, sleep on one side of the bed, leaving space for that future husband of yours to lay. Instead of settling for men who play games, only look for relationships that match your vision of the type of relationship you want with your husband. If you’re into booty calls, well it’s time to shut that down and let the universe know you are ready for your REAL man to come into your life, not all these “extras”!

But besides physically making space, it’s also about your mentality. 

If you really want that dream guy, but you don’t trust easily… you’re not making room for anyone of great quality to come into your life. You have to shut down those mental blocks, stop being so closed off, and let your guard down. When you honestly believe that you’re dream guy is going to be perfect for you… and you truly believe he’s on his way, the universe will bring him to you. It’s up to you, though, to make sure you’re welcoming! So make room!

Live life like you’re dream is on it’s way to you right now!

The third way to manifest any dream is to constantly speak it into existence! It’s about saying those Positive Affirmations daily and speaking like it’s already there!

So when you wake up in the morning, go to the mirror and say, “I am healthy and fit, and I love my body!” Even if you’re not physically there yet, by you already being thankful for the body you do have, you’re sending a signal out to the universe letting it know that you’re grateful now, so you’ll definitely be grateful when you’re in your fit body.

Also, when you say positive affirmations, you start to really have a huge mindset shift. If you currently wake up and look in the mirror feeling disgusted, try waking up and saying, “I am beautiful! And I love myself!” Even if you don’t feel or believe those things yet, if you say it every single day, you truly will start to believe that. By you sending positive messages out, you’re going to receive positive things back.

It’s important for you to use words that speak your dream into existence, like it’s already there. So don’t use words like, “I hope,” or “I’ll try,” because those words have doubt wrapped all around them them.

Your main job in using these 3 steps is to only worry about believing!

If you truly believe that these dreams can become your reality, and you have firm faith that these things are already on their way into your life, then everything WILL happen for you!

Your job is NOT to worry about the how. Leave that part up to God & the universe. 😉

Stay positive, and do these 3 things daily. By the end of 2018, you’ll be SO glad you did!

Live Your Best Life in 2018!

It’s a New Year!!!

Welcome to 2018! This year I KNOW you’re going to crush those goals!

Have you made any New Year's resolutions? If you did, you’ve probably heard a bunch of people who are suddenly against these resolutions.

Why are people so against them?? Because most people think they're a waste of time.

Usually we make new goals… start off the year really crushing those goals… and then somewhere around March or sometimes even sooner than that, we just… stop caring about those goals.

It’s actually something I’ve struggled with, and I’m sure some of you have struggled with too. But why do we give up so easily on our resolutions? What makes us feel like we’ve failed?

Well there are some people who make a new resolution that’s just unrealistic… or they make a resolution but have no plan. And both of these lead to us feeling defeated before we even make it a quarter of the way through the year.

So the easiest solution to this problem would be to set realistic goals that make sense for your life, and to create a plan to reach that goal. It’s super important for you to remember that crazy amounts of money just don’t fall from trees! If you’re goal is to generate $100,000 this year, well you need to have a plan. Maybe you’re plan should include looking for a better paying job, or getting 2 jobs this year. Or maybe it includes you starting a side business, or getting promoted to a better position! Either way, these are all plans you can put in place to help achieve that goal this year. If you don’t have a plan… it’s most likely not going to happen.

Once you create a plan to get towards that  goal, it's up to YOU to make it happen!

Now that you have a plan, it's time to create some tasks that you can do to make that plan work! To go with our example goal above of generating $100,000, if your plans to get there include getting promoted… well I think you and I both know promotions don’t just happen out of nowhere. You’ve got to work hard and do your job like you really LOVE it! Meet deadlines, go above and beyond at your job, and network. The more time you spend on loving your job and giving it your best… well the more likely you’ll get that promotion. And the closer you'll be to reaching that goal of generating $100,000.

So be realistic and take action! Your New Year's resolutions don’t have to end with you feeling defeated or like you’ve wasted another year.

If you weren’t happy with 2017, you’ve got to make changes in yourself, your life, and your routines in order to have a better 2018!

Here's what you need to do if you’re ready to set some great goals for yourself and crush it in 2018! :

  1. Get out a piece of paper and a pen
  2. Write down the top 1-3 goals you want to achieve this year (or more if you’re feeling ambitious!)
  3. Make a plan! How will you achieve those goals?
  4. Break down each goal (or plan) into 5 actionable tasks that you can do to help reach that goal
  5. Make it happen! That means get out your planner or a calendar and write down which days you’re going to do those tasks you came up with!
  6. Set your deadlines. If you want to start a side business to generate that $100,000 this year, which day will you launch it?
  7. Set reminders in your phone to work on those tasks and to remind yourself of your upcoming deadlines
  8. Set reminders to show up on your phone that have encouraging messages to keep you motivated throughout the year!

And most importantly… don’t give up!!! If you do all of these things you’re way more likely to accomplish those goals this year!

But what if I do all this and I don’t reach my goal???

That’s okay! I bet you’ll be A LOT closer to your goal than if you didn’t take these steps! And you’ll feel so much better about your year at the end because of all of the things you DID accomplish even if it wasn’t exactly where you’d originally wanted to be. Any progress is good progress!

To go along with these steps to make sure you achieve your goals in 2018, I have 3 ways that you can stay on track and actually manifest your biggest dreams this year without feeling discouraged in a few months! I’ll share all about it in tomorrow’s post, so stay tuned!