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I am a 48 yr. Physician and have been in private practice for 22 years. During that time my patients have asked me just about every question imaginable. One question from a long time patient seemed to have a very simple and obvious answer. She asked me what made her "wet the bed during sex". I, of course gave her the stock answer of urinary stress incontinence. She looked at me and said quit confidently that it wasn't urine and she didn't have this so called incontinence at any other time. She also said this had been happening with her orgasms since her wedding at a very early age. She said she had raised 3 kids and knew urine stains and smell when she saw it. The look of certainty on her face was like granite, she obviously knew something her Dr. didn't. My interest was peaked immediately and I began to scan the literature and read the works of Dr. Grafenburg et al.
What I found was quite provocative and enlightening. I now recognize the phenomenon of Female Ejaculation and have, I believe, determined the sequence of events there in. Most women experience orgasm through stimulation of the clitoris. Women are also sensitive to stimulation of certain areas of the vagina. On such area is now commonly called the G-Spot. The G Spot is located, on most women, about 2" into the vagina on the anterior, or top wall as the woman is laying on her back.
The G Spot is also called the Urethral Sponge. There is a rather interesting anatomical arrangement here. The G Spot is formed by a structure called the Paraurethral, or Skene's gland. This structure consists of small sacks, or vesicles which are in close proximity to and in fact surround the urethra. There appears to be great individual variation among women as to the size and numbers of these vesicles just as there are variations in breast, nose, ear, etc., sizes. These vesicles are connected to and open into the urethra through the Paraurethral Ducts mostly in the distal, or outer 1/3 of the urethra. Stimulation of the Paraurethral Gland causes the lining to secrete a fluid into the sac-like structures where it accumulates. The longer the stimulation, the more fluid is produced and stored in the vesicles. As this build up of fluid occurs, the G Spot will begin to increase in size, or swell. The G Spot, or urethral sponge may expand greatly, up to the size of a walnut or more. This expansion occurs downward into the vagina and is readily apparent as a bulge. The spot becomes quite firm to the touch because of the volume of fluid contained in response to stimulation. A rather interesting thing happens as stimulation to orgasm occurs. The Pubococcygeous Muscle, or PC muscle rhythmically contracts, and if strong enough, will constrict the barrel of the vagina. This muscular constriction actually squeezes the G Spot and forces the contained fluid to be pushed through the paraurethral ducts into the urethra from which it exits. If the PC muscle contraction is forceful enough, the ejaculate may be expelled for some distance, or if weaker contraction occurs, the fluid may simply flow out of the urethra with little force and may appear to be just leaking out.
Some women expel huge quantities of fluid and the question arises, how can all this fluid be stored in the vesicles of the Paraurethral Gland. The answer is, it's not all stored. As stimulation continues, the gland will continue to produce fluid which may be almost continuously released, or stored again for a short time after which it may be forcefully expelled. This is similar to the Parotid, or spit glands. If you've ever bitten into a dill pickle you may have felt the contraction of these small glands in your jaw. And everyone has experienced their mouths "watering" at the sight or smell of food at times. These small glands can produce gallons of saliva a day and the Paraurethral Gland can also produce relatively large amounts of fluid, perhaps up to a cupful. The composition of this fluid has sparked a rather lively debate. I have done no formal analysis on this liquid. However, my wife has experienced FE for some time now and my informal tests using urine dip sticks reveal no urine component. This is confirmed by the lack of urine smell, even after her eating of asparagus to provide an informal marker with it's rather strong and distinctive smell. My conclusion is, it isn't urine, although I'm not sure what it's chemical makeup is as I've never had it analyzed.
There is a great deal of discussion on this board as to how to "make a women ejaculate". The answer is, you can't. I repeat, You CAN'T. If you try to force her, you can be assured it won't happen. You must ALLOW her to FE. This is best done in a loving, considerate relationship. That takes time, commitment and an understanding of the physiology.
My wife and I decided we wanted to experience FE and began to sensitize her G Spot and strengthen her PC muscle. For PC strengthening I recommend the Kegelmaster 2000. This device can be ordered on the net and has worked well for my patients to combat true incontinence. It works much better and faster than traditional Kegel exercises. To awaken and sensitize the G Spot I have found the Sybian machine, also on the net, to be far and away the most effective method. If this is beyond your means, use your fingers, dildo, etc. We have become somewhat enamored of the sybian because of its unique ability to stimulate both the clitoris and G Spot concurrently. It is not generally known but the G Spot and clitoris are supplied sensation by different nerves. That is why there are different types of female orgasms , clitoral and vaginal. Most women will respond to G Spot stimulation differently than clitoral. When these two different nerves are stimulated at the same time a resonance is created between them as more and more nerve fibers are recruited and send pleasure signals to the brain. There is a cumulative effect which is very pleasurable. So my advice to men who want "to meet a squirter" is to form a loving relationship with your woman, follow the above advice, and let FE develop naturally. In short, do your homework.! If you take a predatory outlook you will not be pleased with your results. Be positive, loving, considerate, have fun and ENJOY EACH OTHER. Welcome to the wonderful world
of Female Ejaculation.
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