Posted by Rudy on October 17, 19102 at 21:37:58:
In Reply to: HELP! I cannot masterbate! posted by Beth on October 05, 19102 at 19:00:13:
i would like to possibly offer a suggestion. When you feel like masturbating try to pretend that you are 2 people. by this i mean treat yourself like the person you think about in your mind while masturbating. tease yourself, hold off touching yourself in the preferred areas by almost touching them but not. i guess its kind of like having your own kind of foreplay. It is important to know what you like and what feels good to you. the main objective in masturbation is not to get yourself off, it is to enjoy sexual stimulation. it doesn't matter if its someone else or yourself. also, orgasms dont need to be immediately. there is no time limit on how long a self session should be. its as long as you want it to be. try touching yourself in other places than just the main attraction. tease the area with as little direct stimulation as possible. the only other thing i could suggest is dont try so hard you are inadvertantly putting unwanted pressure on yourself to preform. i know as a guy that when i used to put presure on myself to perform it is almost impossible to do my best and i would end up letting both her and myself down. relax and let go. the orgasm will come...no pun intended. i would like to know how thing turn out.